Actually, these are not kids but they are 11th and 12th graders. The first two weeks of school were trying. I was getting to know the kids and I really had to work with them to gain their attention. Now I know them by face and name and their personalities. As a teacher, you walk the fine line between being too harsh and then being too nice. I've seen that. However, the kids need to know that you really want to help them and when they see that, you can go from there.
The best thing about this job is the questions you get. Just when you think that they cannot come up with something crazy to ask, they ask it. They are curious but then again, I encourage that too. Yesterday, they asked me about frogs and why they die when you throw salt on their backs. It was off the topic but nevertheless, related in some way to what I was teaching. You always have to have these little factoids on hand to throw out at them when you see them understanding the topic. It's like giving them a treat. You teach them what you want them to learn, stop, let them absorb it, they ask questions, and then they come up with the association questions. When they get this far, I tell them something really cool about the topic that they will remember...the factoid. That's when I see the lightbulbs going on and really, you do notice it.
Today, I got a day off and let me tell you, I completely agree with getting so many holidays as a teacher. you need to recover.
Apart from teaching, I've been planning my wedding. It's only three months away and it's a lot of work to get done. This is when you get happy to know that you have a big and extended out family. You have some of them just waiting for you to tell them what you want to get done. I think Ami is doing more of the planning that I am....and he's the groom! It's not that I'm not excited about it too but he does better when it comes to having things planned and on a schedule. I pretty much get a picture in my head, research a lot and act at the last minute when I have the entire thing drawn out in my mind. Yesterday, I went all by my lonesome and got my sari. I guess it was strange that I would go by myself to do shop for the dress i would wear on my wedding day but I'm weird when it comes to shopping. When there are people with me, I will look but I don't buy anything so when I want to get something, I've realized that I'm better off alone. Actually, I hate shopping for myself. It took me ten minutes to decide on the sari I wanted, get the deal, and I exited out of there. Sometimes we make too much of a big deal about things. The wedding is not as important to me as the marriage I guess.
