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Yo estoy muy triste! Porgito no habla con buBbiciTo desde ayer!!!!!!!!!!! Espero que Porgito veas esta mensaje y habla con BubBiciTo otra vez!!!! And i hope the person who this is addressed to reads it too!!!!!
So anyway, today I opened the store. I decided to print the exercises of the Surya Namaskar out and try them so I spread an apron on the floor and I did one set. I am not sure how good i was at doing it but i know the one thing i did correctly was I faced East. I know because the sun was just coming up when i was doing it. Furgie/Porgito showed me how to do it a few days ago and I tried. Judging from what i did this morning, i am guessing i can only get better. It is a very comforting thought to know that God is forgiving!!!!
Okay, so today seems to be a kinda sad day. This lady who i talk to everyday came in this morning. She was not as happy as she usually is so i asked what was wrong. She told me that her best friend's daughter was hit on her head by her ex boyfried with a sledge hammer. Okay, so after i got over the initial shock of the whole thing, I got angry. I guess anyone will. the guy is in prison and the girl is in the hospital unconscious, but still alive. I do not know her but I hope she gets better and the bastard rots in prison. And the guy's mom is the one who saw, called 911 and got the hammer away from her son. I feel sad. Sad because when people are nice, they seem to be taken advantage of in those ways. See, many people could not believe that the guy would so such a thing. They kept saying how he is such a nice boy but usually it is the nice, really smart ones who are most psycho. I know.
Everytime i hear about these things, i remember what it was like to be in a relationship where everyone thought the guy was sooooo so "nice." It's like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. I say a little prayer of thanks that i was able to leave. Not many people are that lucky. Now a few pointers for anyone who may be in the same situation.....It may sound funny but really it isn't and you do not know until you are in it.

• When you see the guy/bf and you feel like if banging your head on every conceivable surface is better than being with him, it's time to go.
• When you see the guy and you get physically sick, start packing! Trust me, it IS not worth it.
• The minute he hits with the intent to hurt, don't wait for a second time.....get to stepping and never look back, trust me, there are lots of other guys out there who can treat you better!

It is a long way to forgetting and maybe it is good that one never forgets these things. It is better to stay lonely for a while rather than to end up in a life-threatening position.

• Oh and one more point, if you do break up and he asks to see you, NEVER go alone! It can mean the difference between you being well or ending up like this poor girl in the hospital or even worse.